Upcoming Grieve Leave Events:
Meet & Grieve: Showing Love To Hurricane Helene First Responders
Months after Hurricane Helene devastated Western North Carolina, the spotlight may have moved on, but your grief hasn't – and we haven't forgotten you. Join us for this special Meet & Grieve dedicated to first responders, frontline workers, mental health practitioners, and all those who have supported our communities through the impact of the storm and its aftermath. We want to support YOU! What's a Meet & Grieve? It's pretty simple: we get together and talk about grief without it being weird. No clinical support group vibes, no forced sharing circles – just real people having real conversations about the hard stuff. Grief isn't always pretty, and we don't pretend it is. Hosted by Rebecca Feinglos, North Carolina native and founder of Durham-based Grieve Leave, at New Belgium Brewing's Riverview Deck. Rebecca founded Grieve Leave after experiencing the deaths of both her parents and going through divorce all by age 31. She knows firsthand that traditional grief support often falls short, which is why she's created spaces that feel more genuine and relevant. This judgment-free gathering offers a chance to connect with others who understand that being "Asheville Strong" doesn't mean you can't be grieving, too. Whether you're mourning lost homes, disrupted communities, overwhelming workloads, or the weight of helping others through trauma while managing your own, this space is for you. The first 25 attendees will receive a complimentary drink, and local food trucks Grush’s Cajun Dino Grill and French Broad Pantry will be on-site. Come as you are – whether you're ready to share your story, prefer to simply listen, or just need to be in a space where others understand. There's no pressure to speak, no expectations to meet. This is your space to use in whatever way brings you comfort.
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Making Space for Grief @ Work: A LinkedIn Live Conversation with Faith Holloway & Rebecca Feinglos
Grief doesn't clock out when you clock in. Whether you're returning to work after a recent loss or navigating the long-term grief that can suddenly hit you in the middle of your workday, trying to maintain "professionalism" while carrying the weight of grief can feel impossible. Join Grieve Leave's founder Rebecca Feinglos and Faith Holloway for a LinkedIn Live conversation about making space for grief in the workplace. This session is for the grievers returning to work, those navigating grief that resurfaces months or even years later, and the managers supporting them. We'll dig into practical strategies for advocating for your needs, supporting team members through loss, and creating workplace cultures that acknowledge grief as part of the human experience. Come as you are – ready to share your experiences, ask questions, or simply listen to others who understand what you're going through. This judgment-free space welcomes everyone looking to navigate the messy reality of grief at work. Don't miss this chance to connect with people who "get it" and leave with actionable insights you can apply immediately.
Meet & Grieve: Holiday Grief AMA
That weird stretch between Thanksgiving and December holidays when the world seems to speed up, but grief makes everything feel like it's moving in slow motion? Yeah, we get it. Whether you've just survived your first major holiday without someone, or you're dreading the next round of celebrations, this in-between time can feel incredibly lonely – even when you're surrounded by tinsel and cheer. Join us for an "Ask Me Anything" (AMA) Virtual Meet & Grieve, where no topic is taboo and every question is welcome. Hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, this event offers a judgment-free space to explore the complexities of grief – whether you're processing how the first major holiday without someone went, or anxious about the celebrations ahead. This is your chance to ask what's been on your mind, share your experiences, or simply listen and find comfort among those who truly understand. Come as you are – ready to open up, seek answers, or just be present in a supportive community. Our AMAs are ongoing, providing consistent support for your evolving grief journey. Don't miss this opportunity to connect, learn, and find solace with people who "get it."
Meet & Grieve: So, You’re A Caregiver AMA (Ask Me Anything!)
Ever found yourself juggling medications, appointments, and your own emotions while caring for a loved one? Maybe you never expected to be in this position, or maybe it’s been a long time coming and is all part of a plan. Maybe you’ve never thought about yourself as a caregiver until *literally* right now. Welcome to the complex world of caregiving,where grief often sneaks in wearing an "I’ve totally got this" disguise. (Spoiler alert: It's ok when we don’t have it all figured out!) Whether you're a full-time caregiver, balancing care with other responsibilities, or simply lending a hand to a friend in need, this Meet & Grieve is for you. Join us for one of our monthly virtual gatherings hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, as, this time, we navigate the often-overlooked terrain of caregiver grief. We'll explore those "I didn't know I was allowed to feel this way" moments and the challenges of maintaining your identity while prioritizing someone else's needs. This judgment-free zone is your chance to connect with others who understand the journey of caregiving. We'll discuss recognizing the signs of caregiver grief (spoiler: it's not always tied to a death), the guilt that comes with needing a break, and strategies for self-care that don't feel like another task on your to-do list. Whether you're looking to share your story, ask questions, or simply listen, you're welcome here. Come as you are – in your comfiest clothes, with your favorite beverage in hand. Remember, acknowledging your grief doesn't make you a bad caregiver; it makes you human. And last we checked, humans need support too. So join us in creating a community where caregiver grief is seen, validated, and supported.
Meet & Grieve: Back To School AMA
Your grief isn’t taking a gap year– even though we probably wish it would. As summer fades and a new academic year begins, we know grief will be alongside us for the semester, too. Join us for a special "Back to School" virtual edition of our monthly Meet & Grieve events, where we'll explore the unique challenges of navigating grief in academic settings. Whether you're next to an empty desk where a friend once sat, transferring to a new school without your usual support system, the course you wanted to teach this year got cut, you’re injured and unable to play the sport you used to love, you didn’t get into the school you wanted, or you’re struggling to focus on studies while processing loss, this space is for you. Hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, this "Ask Me Anything" (AMA) event offers a chance to discuss all things grief and school, such as coping with the absence of friends, classmates, or mentors who won't be returning, adjusting to new environments while carrying your grief; balancing self-care and academic demands, handling changes in routines, like not participating in a sport you used to play and strategies for focus and motivation when grief feels overwhelming. Come as you are – ready to open up, seek answers, or just be present in a supportive community. This is your opportunity to ask questions you've been hesitant to voice, share your experiences, or simply listen and find comfort among those who truly understand. Don't miss this chance to connect, learn, and find solace with people who "get it!”
Meet & Grieve: AMA
Feeling lost in your grief journey? Have questions you've been afraid to ask? Join us for an "Ask Me Anything" (AMA) Virtual Meet & Grieve, where no topic is taboo and every question is welcome. Hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, this event offers a judgment-free space to explore the complexities of grief – whether you're mourning a death, a breakup, a job loss, or any other life-altering change. This is your chance to ask what's been on your mind, share your experiences, or simply listen and find comfort among those who truly understand. Come as you are – ready to open up, seek answers, or just be present in a supportive community. Our AMAs are ongoing, providing consistent support for your evolving grief journey. Don't miss this opportunity to connect, learn, and find solace with people who "get it."
Meet & Grieve: Ambiguous Loss
Most of us know what it means to grieve when someone dies, but what about a loss without a death? Ambiguous loss is a loss without closure or clear understanding, leaving us feeling uncertain, confused, and alone. It can happen when a loved one is physically present but psychologically absent (as with dementia or addiction), or physically absent but psychologically present (as in the case of missing persons or estranged relationships). If you're grappling with ambiguous loss, join us for a Virtual Meet & Grieve, hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos. Come as you are, whether you're ready to open up, ask questions, or simply find comfort in the presence of those who "get it."
Grief Onscreen: A Meet & Grieve Screening of Captain Scott B and the Great Adventure
Join us for a special Meet & Grieve exploring grief through the lens of the documentary, "Captain Scott B and the Great Adventure." Hosted by Grieve Leave's Rebecca Feinglos, and featuring Betsy Bertram, the film's co-producer and subject, this virtual gathering offers a unique opportunity to witness one woman's journey to find hope and meaning after the death of her father. Set against the stunning backdrop of North Carolina's natural beauty, the film follows Betsy as she embarks on a quest to complete her late father's project, uncovering his wisdom on living a magical life along the way. Through hiking, paddling, and kiteboarding adventures, Betsy invites us to consider what it means to live fully, even in the face of grief. After the screening, we'll open the floor for a Q&A with Betsy, diving into the film's themes and her personal experiences. Whether you've faced the death of a loved one or any other form of grief, this judgment-free space welcomes you to share, listen, and find solace among others who understand. Don't miss this opportunity to connect with the Grieve Leave community and explore the role of film in processing grief.
Meet & Grieve: For Men & The People Who Love Them
Join Grieve Leave and Mike D's BBQ for a special Meet & Grieve focused on bringing together men and the people who love them to explore the unique challenges of navigating grief. Over BBQ, beer, and conversation, we'll hear personal stories from Michael De Los Santos D, the founder and owner of Mike D's BBQ, Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, and, you’ll have plenty of time to connect with others who understand grief….and good BBQ. Whether you're a man seeking support or looking to support a man who's experiencing loss of any kind (the death of a loved one or a friend, the loss of a child, divorce, a diagnosis, or something else), this judgment-free gathering offers a chance to listen, learn, and find solace just in time for Father's Day. Space is limited to 25 attendees, so register early! While the event is free to attend, please plan to purchase your own food and drinks on-site at Mike D's BBQ.
Meet & Grieve: Navigating Grief In The Workplace AMA
Grief doesn't clock out when you clock in. At times, grief can feel amplified in the workplace - whether you're grieving a death, breakup, job loss, or any other life-altering event, the challenge of juggling those intense emotions while maintaining “professionalism” (whatever we think that means) can be overwhelming. And don't get us started on how three days of bereavement leave is nowhere near enough – we'll talk about this and more during our special "Ask Me Anything" (AMA) event focused on navigating how we handle our grief in the workplace. Rebecca Feinglos, founder of Grieve Leave, will provide insights, share her own experiences, and answer your questions about managing grief on the job.
Meet & Grieve: When Grief Hits Too Young
Grief doesn't always wait until you’re older. For many young adults, the overwhelming experience of loss - whether it's a devastating diagnosis, death, or another life-altering event - is often overlooked. While support exists for children and older folks, there's a huge gap when it comes to those in their teens, 20s, and 30s. That's why we're teaming up with our friends at Gray for Glioblastoma for this special Meet & Grieve. Hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, in collaboration with Kate Snedeker of Gray for Glioblastoma, this virtual gathering is a much-needed space for young adults navigating grief. Whether your loss was recent or long ago, you can unload, connect with others who get it, or just listen - whatever you need, this space is for you.
Meet & Grieve: Grief, Love & Dating AMA
Feeling a bit more griefy than lovey-dovey this Valentine's season? Whether you're single, going through a breakup/divorce, or just rolling your eyes at all the perfect couples, we understand, and we're here for you. Join us for a Virtual Meet & Grieve designed for individuals navigating the complexities of grief in the dating world! This event offers the opportunity to ask anonymous questions, share your experiences, or simply listen to others who understand what you're going through. Whether you seek answers, a comforting environment, or connection, consider this your invitation to join a community that understands and supports you on your unique path through grief.
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Meet & Grieve: Break-Up/Divorce Grief with Kendra Allen
Join us for a special Virtual Meet & Grieve all about break-up and divorce grief. This event will be hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, in collaboration with Kendra Allen, host of Heal Your Heartbreak. Meet & Grieves are a safe and supportive space to express and explore your feelings about grief. During this event, you can ask questions, share your experiences, or simply listen to others who understand what you're going through! Whether your separation was recent or years ago, amicable or bitter, you are invited to come as you are and find support on your grief journey. This Meet & Grieve offers a judgment-free community that understands the messiness of loss.
Navigating Grief During the Holidays
Join Rebecca and other experts for the 2nd Annual Navigating Grief During the Holidays, a transformative event crafted to inspire, educate, and empower attendees on their grief journeys. This year, our event features a remarkable lineup of speakers, each offering a wealth of knowledge, compassion, and resources.
Meet & Grieve Candle Making Experience
Join Grieve Leave and The Raw Edition Candle Company for a special in-person Meet & Grieve. During this interactive event, you'll have the chance to make your own candle while opening up about your grief experiences or listening to others share their own journeys. Whether your loss was recent or long ago, this is a judgment-free community that understands grief comes in many forms. This gathering will be hosted by Rebecca Feinglos, founder of GrieveLeave.com, in collaboration with Ticca Harris of The Raw Edition Candle Company at their Durham studio (304 S Driver St Unit 103, Durham, NC 27703). Together, we'll discuss the history of candles in grieving rituals while crafting our own candles. Ticca will guide us through pouring and personalizing our candles as we share stories and insights about grief and loss. You'll leave with a handmade candle and a greater understanding of grief and grieving.
Queer Grief Club X Grieve Leave Meet & Grieve: Grief AMA
Join us for a Virtual Meet & Grieve - a safe and supportive space where you can freely express and explore your feelings about grief. This event will be hosted by Grieve Leave's founder, Rebecca Feinglos, and Queer Grief Club's Jamie Thrower! We will be exploring the nuances of our feelings within the Queer community. We offer the opportunity to ask anonymous questions, share your experiences, or simply listen to others who understand what you're going through! Whether you're seeking answers, comfort, or connection, we invite you to come as you are and be part of a compassionate community that understands and supports you on your grief journey.
Meet & Grieve: Grieve & Graze
Join us for our next Meet & Grieve in partnership with Meat & Graze! We are meeting in-person in Durham, North Carolina for a gathering that’s all about connecting and sharing. It’s a place where you can open up about your grief and losses, no matter the form, or just come listen to others. Plus, you’ll get an exclusive 10% discount from Durham’s very own Meat & Graze! Come as you are and join us for some conversations and delicious food. We promise not to be too cheesy. We can't wait to meat you. Brie you soon! (okay, we’re done - we promise!)
Meet & Grieve: Grief AMA & Support Group
Join us for a Virtual Meet & Grieve - a safe and supportive space where you can freely express and explore your feelings about grief. This event offers the opportunity to ask anonymous questions, share your experiences, or simply listen to others who understand what you're going through. Whether you're seeking answers, comfort, or connection, we invite you to come as you are and be part of a compassionate community that understands and supports you on your grief journey.
Meet & Grieve: Work Grief with Dr. Linda Kim
Whether you’re grieving a job loss, career transition, laid off colleagues, the status of your work, or just feeling grief in the workplace, join us for a special Meet & Grieve with Dr. Linda Kim. This is a new kind of support group where we invite you to come as you are, share your grief or just listen.
Meet & Grieve: Current Wellness Yoga Class
Whether you’re grieving a death, a break-up, a job transition, or a big change, let’s come together to find movement in a way that feels good to our bodies, with the opportunity to connect to yourself and to others, and grieve on your own terms. In-person and virtual!
